I met A when I was 18. We had a class together in College our first
semester (June 2011). The second semester rolls around, and I meet him
again, and then the third semester comes, and I see him in another
class. Him and his friends used to poke fun at me, and make me blush
when they would say: "A wants to take you on a date." Summer 2012 rolls
around, and he adds me on Facebook. He then messages me asking if I
could help him with an essay he is writing for our class. I tell him,
sure I'll help. He comes over, and he's all funny. He was someone I was
expecting to be a jerk, but he ended up being amazing... different than
what I expected. Well about a month later of hanging with him, we
decided to have sex. We were both virgins, and we were both ready. It
didn't really hurt, but that was because I was super comfortable with
him. We aren't together now, but I don't regret my decision of him being
my first, because at the time, it was the decision I made.
AVERT
says: When making choices about sex, it is important to do what you
feel comfortable with. If you are thinking about having sex, or being
intimate for the first time, it’s up to you to decide when the time is
right. For more information, take a look at our
Am I Ready for Sex?
Taiyang: my first time
I
was 15 when I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months. We were in
the same gifted program school. As an Asian American, there was no way I
was going to ask my parents to be put on the pill, as they would freak
out. None of my friends had sex before, and I had no one to consult,
since kids in my school were just like that.
What was really
important to me was that my first time was with the right guy. We made
sure that we knew what we were doing, and used protection. We did it for
the first time at his house when his parents weren't home. It didn't
hurt for me at all, and I didn't bleed. Whenever my bf and I had spent
time together privately, he would finger me until it didn't hurt
anymore. I googled and found out that my hymen might have already broken
during sports or something. So the first time we had sex was really
enjoyable. He would ask if he was hurting me and if I wanted him to stop
and I felt really safe with him. However, towards the end either the
condom slipped or something but we found cum on me and it really freaked
me out. He bought me a morning after pill, but for that night, it was a
huge scare, even though the chances were with me. My parents and school
put a lot of pressure on me to achieve and I felt like my life would be
over with an unwanted pregnancy. I kept thinking, this couldn't be
happening to me, it only happened to stupid kids! But we were "stupid
kids" too and it can really happen to anyone. We agreed to not have sex
again until I can be put on the pill.
AVERT says: Making
choices about sex can be difficult, but it is important to do what you
feel comfortable with. If you are thinking of having sex, or being
intimate, it's up to you to decide when the time is right. Whether it’s
your first time or you’ve had sex before, it’s perfectly natural to
wonder whether you’re ready to have sex with somebody, or whether you
want to continue having sex with him or her. For more information, check
out our page
Am I Read for Sex?
If you are thinking of
having sex, or being intimate (doing any sexual stuff), it's up to you to decide when the time is right. Whether it’s your
first time
or you’ve had sex before, it’s perfectly natural to wonder whether
you’re ready to have sex with somebody, or whether you want to continue
having sex with him or her. You can ask yourself these questions to help
you decide: - See more at:
http://www.avert.org/am-i-ready-sex.htm#sthash.qFI3I6fj.dpuf
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